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5 Signs A Married Man Is In Love With You
What are the signs a married man is in love with you? Well, I’ll be straight up on this one: Because this subject is taboo and it’s not for the faint of heart…
It’s when a guy who’s already married starts to show interest in you. It’s when men cheat. But at the same time, if you’re reading this article, you’re probably – dare I say it – kinda hoping for a little of that interest?
And let’s be brutally honest – there are women who want to know the signs that married men are in love with you. Maybe it wasn’t what you wanted at the start, but you’ve got his interest now… and it feels pretty good, right?
You know it’s messing around in a place you don’t want to go. Like when a married coworker starts to show interest. Attraction can happen at any time and any place… I mean, think about it: You spend upwards of 8 hours with some of the people you work with, and usually less with your own family during the week. It can get very intimate.
I have a close relative who was once seeing a married guy – ironically right after she got divorced from a husband who had… well, cheated on her. Go figure. So whatever the situation may be for you, you now have a situation to deal with.
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So how do you handle the possible signs a married man is in love with you? Let’s take a look – starting with:
Sign #1 A Married Man is Falling for You: He hides the band…
You know that little gold or silver ring married men normally have on their left hand? You might see it catching the glint of the sun in a few of his social media pictures. Or when married men are at certain places with … her.
But when he’s able to just hang out with you, for whatever reason that ring keeps disappearing.
You might even see that telltale line on his finger… slight tan line. Of course he’s going to feel a little guilty and weird about this attraction, as you probably do. So taking that visual reminder out of the picture is a way to alleviate some of that feeling.
And the ring makes him feel like there’s an invisible tentacle of “wife” there watching him. And POOF! He’s single!
Let’s be clear here, though: He’s not necessarily going to act on this feeling.
So, you know that this guy is married. And when you see his social media photos, he always has his wedding ring on. But whenever he is with you, it is like his ring has suddenly disappeared and you keep wondering why that is so.
If the guy is in love with you, he probably feels guilty about it. He is also scared that his wife will find out about his feelings. When he has his wedding ring on, it serves him as a reminder that he is a married man who shouldn’t allow himself to feel or acknowledge any romantic feelings for some other woman because he has a wife.
Another reason is that when he has his ring on, he feels like he has a part of his wife together with him.
This ring probably makes him think of her and everything he is doing and that is the last thing he wants. But when he takes the ring off, it helps him forget his status and he subconsciously thinks he is free to court you.
Another possibility is that he doesn’t take his ring off when he is with you but that he constantly plays with it without even being aware of it. If he does that, it is probable that he hasn’t reached a decision about whether or not to act on his feelings for you just yet.
If his marriage isn’t a happy one, sure, it could happen. But most likely he’s just looking to flirt and play with that kind of romantic energy every once in a while.
We ALL want to feel desired.
And it’s probably been years since he felt that initial thrill of new attraction with a woman. Married women do this sort of thing all the time. (I should know, I liked to flirt with them, too.) When the wedding ring disappears it lets him play with the notion that he is free to flirt.
It always comes down to whether or not his flirting will be acted on when the time comes, of course. Which brings us to:
Sign #2 Married dude is flirting: He gets closer…
If someone has feelings for you, his body language will be the first thing that will give him away. One of the signs that a married man is in love with you is the physical contact he tries to have with you all the time.
If you encounter this man at work or in a group of friends, he will make sure to sit or stand next to you. When he talks to you, he will touch your shoulder or your hand and when the two of you greet, he will want to hug you or at least kiss you on the cheek. He mimics your moves and he always stands with his feet directed toward you.
Sign #3 Married dude wants you: He starts unloading…
If a married man is falling in love with you and especially if he wants to act on it, he is very well aware that his feelings are not something he should be proud of. So, he will do whatever is in his power to justify himself.
Therefore, he will probably talk to you about his marriage. And let’s face it – married life is hard for a lot of people. He will open up to you about all the alleged problems he’s been having with his wife for years.
Sign #4 Married dude wants you: The monkey starts to dance…
Men live to please women.
This is a fact that most women are not taught these days. I was very surprised to find that moms are rarely talking to their daughters about how men work. This explanation was something that has been done for countless centuries. And now that it’s not happening, women are having a tough time understanding men.
I guess that’s where I fit in!
Sign #5 Married dude wants you: He goes out of his way…
When someone has romantic feelings for you, it is perfectly normal that this person wants to spend as much time with you as possible. But, when that someone happens to be married, he knows he can’t just ask you out as if he were single.
Therefore, one of the signs a married man is in love with you is his excuses to make any kind of contact with you. This guy will use every opportunity he gets to talk to you or to be near you. He will try to initiate any kind of communication with you. He’ll probably start with some casual topics and small talk, with the intention of deepening that communication.
How To Tell If A Married Man Likes You Quiz
He may be your boss, or a colleague or a dad. He talks and laughs unusually or looks at you differently then maybe he is obsessed with you. Getting involved with a married man can complicate relations and end up in a lot of confusion. So, knowing if this married man has a crush on you is vital. Take on the quiz and find out!
Let’s start the quiz
1. Have you caught him looking at you quite often?
|Once or twice|
|I’m not sure|
2. Which of your features does he look at?
|Eyes, He always stares in my eyes|
|He scans me from face to bottom|
|He does not look at me|
3. He calls or texts you? How many times does this happen?
|Once a week|
4. Does he converse about love life and ask about your boyfriend?
|Now and then|
|No, he hasn’t ever|
|He asked only once casually|
5. Which of the following word does he compliment you with?
6. What reflected his interest in you?
|He notes how you dress and appreciates|
|I am not sure|
|His reactions are a brainteaser for me|
|No, he isn’t interested|
7. Does he come to discuss things while you are alone?
|No, he never does|
|Yes, when he genuinely has some work for me|
|Don’t observe anyways|
8. What is your conversation about?
|Mostly about love and sex|
|A trending condition|
9. How did he react in a business dinner when you were around?
|He speaks or laughs loudly to attract your attention|
|Head to you and offer you a drink|
|He changes his posture and lean close towards you|
|He behaves normal|
10. How does his presence make you feel?
|Safe and protected|
|Breathless, I lose my heart to him|
|Bursting with energy|
|Filled with admiration|